+++++++*+

You know it when..

2008-05-01T22:57:00.002+08:00

..you felt it coming..
but u never face it.

You know it's true if you can feel it coming,
Yet you never have the courage to say it..

You realise when you knew it,
But you will always deny it.

When you take on a new role in life...
With all the workloads, the change in the phases of life , the new things and surroundings you hav to adapt ..
It is best to leave all the unnecessary worries behind
and start taking a step forward..

Think rationally, Yee Mun.. You ain't that naive! Be more mature!

-untitled-

2008-04-21T14:27:00.005+08:00

To those who are still reading this, or actually bothered clicking on this site, thank you :) very supportive indeed, LOL..

this blog is almost half dead, considering the owner of it ( me, yes) seldom updates it, or should i say DIDN'T update it for 4 months already? yikess.. long enough to lose all the regular readers I thought i'm writing this for my own view instead.. Anyway, this is not gonna be a long post as I'm just dropping by to say "HI" , i AM not dead yet :)

Working ppl like me is always busy during weekdays, u know? Even if I've the extra time to do something after 5.30pm it wouldnt be something that i have to face the comp/lappie :p Seriously, it's boring..BUT i might, just MIGHT ..start blogging again! I mean in a new site or something so when i'm old and ugly i still able to browse through my younger past and happenings=p , so fortunately for some bored folks out there, u MIGHT have things to read soon in my not-so high Tech site to be up probably sometime this year (-_____-) , tho im working in a super hi tech company but i'm a dummie in comps and esp, HTML!! AND unfortunately to some ppl out there , u might just wanna curse me to hell for starting off this crap again, hehe .

My colleague actually asked me to mention a "little" bit about him in this blog. So yea, CIEN THEN.. this is it. Hahah!

For Daniel & jeremy, i know ur reading this*grin*

Oh plus AARON! He's been telling me to mention bout him in my blog too.. FYI, for the girls esp, AARON is an A1 driver ( serious! ) and he's super bergaya esp in his driver's suit *ahem ahem* One of these days u might even see him appearing on sports news or even in the Star Sports section carrying an Orang Utan, which he did months ago during a trip with Alex Yoong to Sabah/Sarawak..Lol!

a beautiful surprise

2008-01-21T15:58:00.000+08:00

I'm not sure if all of you have known bout my previous work in helping stray puppies find homes in the end of year 2006 .. Some of you might have already been or accidentally clicked on my " Dearest Crybaby" link button so u knew roughly what puppies am i toking about here.. seen it or not, doesn't really matter tho..

No im not getting paid for doing such a kind deed..nor to seek any recognition or 'noble' award. I was doing it for the sake of my own interest. My love towards animals.

Trust me, i havent click on the crybaby's blog which i created back in year 2006 since the day i last posted in there. The loss of any animal, to me is unacceptable and i still miss crybaby that much..his death still brings tears to my eye.

And that probably explains why for one whole year i have not gotten myself involved in all these anymore.

I have, in fact, found homes for 3 stray puppies in 2006, or 4- including crybaby. Seriously, not many ppl are willing to do all these troublesome work and as far as i know, few of us humans , actually care for animals. Honestly, if you ask me, my priority goes to helping animals more than humans (minus my loved ones of course) . Y help humans when they can speak for themselves and fight for their own rights? At least they can talk. Animals don't. They need us. So stop acting like a barbarian whenever u c stray dogs picking up rubbish hoping to find some food so they wont be starving at the end of the day ... or discriminating the strays just cause they don't look as good as other animals who are well pampered at home or even having a small gathering of them just for extra protection against cruel humans or the municipal councils! childish shit.. it's so frustrating i have to admit even some of the ppl i know make all sorts of ugly gestures when they see strays..the "eww" and "yerrr" are so annoying they should b ashamed of themselves. Malaysians have nothing to do but to catch these strays and put them to sleep.Malaysia Boleh huh?! Just look to the Western countries... i'm so not proud of being a malaysian in terms of that.

Believe it or not, it's one of the toughest thing to do finding homes for all these furbabies. As i said, not all love animals like some of us who are involved. To find one home is already hard enough,what else in our area itself we have so many.. So pls ppl, dun get attracted to the physical look, adopt one from PAWS/SPCA! and i mean it! don't u ppl read the STAR newspaper?they always have such postings..

I received an email today from one of my puppies' owner.My puppy name 's Roger btw=p I have always wanted to contact the owners but my phone was stolen before this so there goes my contacts=( It was a surprise and never thought she would be so nice to email me pics of Roger n writing on how well this pup is behaving. I'm so touched! My puppy has grown *sob*sob*

I'm actually blogging in office..imagine how happy am i now..
U ppl won't understand anyway.. blahh*

Benji Boy

Bubble.. He recently lost the purple Hyppo..aww

Roger when he was still a puppy..

..a grown up boy after a yr + ..

Missing you crybaby..

my "Fei Chai" where are you?=(

holi holidayy

2008-01-21T10:22:00.000+08:00

It's here!! Finally!

I'm leaving to bangkok in 2 days time ..!!

can't wait to shop & shop & shop & shop & shop & shop& shop & shop....

time waits for no man

2008-01-12T17:59:00.000+08:00

Aikss! I reallie wanna post somemore but i'm in a rush to go for dinner with the girls =p
and it's starting to rain..ughh...i hate the weather so much!

Will update more soon=)

more december babies..

2008-01-12T17:40:00.000+08:00

Some of these pictures u might have seen it in Facebook=p Limited pictures, so just a short recap on Noah & Taib's birthday..

~ Sharon + Me @ Atrium , Taib's birthday=) ~

~ MunFoo, Jw , Me + Yi fei ~

+ The college gang on Noah's birthday @ POPPY +

+ Elicia, Kenneth, Noah, Joe, Choonweng, Edwin, Gary, Charles & Alex +

+ Me & Elicia +
+ look at my face!!! lesson learned: dun take pictures when u know ur face will turn red after drinking a few sips +

the year that was

2008-01-12T16:41:00.000+08:00

I love december, i mean..who doesnt? it's the month of christmas, holidays , year end sales, new yr celebration and also,birthdays!:) and we sure did attend alot of parties in December=p Christmas was so-so , as i mentioned earlier bout the loss of my precious belongings (GrrrRrr~) , few of us went up to Genting coz we had no interesting plans goin on that day . So the purpose of going somewhere on the 24th dec is none other than spending the countdown together as the clock ticks 12a.m. rite? we ended up spending countdown in the car instead, while still on the way up to the highland=p Talk about bad timing..

On Xmas day itself we were busy hopping from one hse to another for their respective house party and gathering. Jw & I went over to my aunt's place for dinner but missed the gathering at Tim's place..both of us were actually thinking of the amount of KFC's chickens and pizzas that we'd missed at his place, hahaha .. Too bad =p After dinner, we spent the remaining night at Jason's hse , while they were all busy drinking n chitchatting w each other i was having my own fun with 6 of Jason's doggies.. Yes, SIX!! Mostly shihtzus with one chihuaha and a golden retriever..Omg.. that's like heaven to me, teehee:P Most of us went home early that night coz we were all too tired to stay longer..

Manda's birthday was on the 26th , and we celebrated her good 21st with a twist of Mambo Jambo at Velvet.. Everyone attended her big day and regardless of how tired we were the previous days, we still had a blast that night! Most of the guys don't usually dance and it's nice to see almost everyone went to dance floor and started dancing that night, i guess we occupied nearly half of the floor space=p At the end of the day..all of us had fun, n most importantly, the birthday girl had fun=)

+ Happy MunFoo with Amy, Nadia, Manda & mE +

+ Ben, Nadia, Me & Jw +

+ ..still the him and 4 of us +

+ Party..Party +

+ Foo swaying happily with 'his' handbags +

+ he loves to be in the pictures.. +

+ My face was not red.. JW was not high=p +

+ Shanboy , Amy & Me +

+ as u can see..the group's lack of girls.. it's always plus minus 4 or 5 =p +

+ it was supposed to be girls-only pic +
+ the guys were all trying to fit in, lolz +

+ classic example..+
+ Jw: "nothing stops me from being in the pic " +

why the silence?

2007-12-31T18:28:00.000+08:00

I will TRY to update my blog soon.

I PROMISE ! ...with pictures of coz=p

..but for now,

MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYBODY !!!!!

Let's welcome the year 2008 and say bye-bye to 2007 !

( Year 2007 ) SUCKS BIG TIME~!
- mobile phone was stolen twice..my COACH wallet got snatched!.. as well as my COACH bag a day before xmas eve.. very happy christmas indeed *forceful smile*

" Damn the fucktard * u better not let me see u again or nots i'll SERIOUSLY make u impotent for life! You're probably enjoying the fortune gained from MY belongings right now *geram* wat goes around comes around..I hope the same incident will happen to your wife/son/daughter or even your bitch sometime soon, better still right NOW!! thank god i'm alive , safe & sound but i PRAY HARD that ur loved ones will never be as lucky! thanks for the troubles.. u'll get the karma for sure! Damn you motorist.. Go on & ride ur pathetic cheap 'kap chai' for the rest of ur life! "

gone with the wind

2007-12-18T14:59:00.000+08:00

my 4 months of troubles..problems and worries seem to be drifting away with the clouds..and now they're completely gone..outta my world~

- no more job seeking (at the moment)..
- no more attending interviews and preparing for 'em the day before..
- no more clinging to my phone everyday to wait for potential company's call
- no more waiting for interviews' results and replies
- no more dilemma
- no more lecturing from dad to call me to start working
- and best of all..i dun need to worry on rejecting CIMB without another confirmed job n whether i have to pay 'em any necessary compensation

You're right.
I am officially- HIRED!
yeap yeap..
after many months of searching..(i think i've attended more than 9 proper interviews so far..excluding all the presentation stage,IQ tests, aptitude tests, reasoning tests, case studies..u name it..) i finally got a satisfactory position which is able to fulfill my fussy criteria: good salary, bonus, benefits and it's so near to my house *smiless*

now i can really focus on my new yr eve and christmas celebration ..not to mention my upcoming bangkok trip!! tis the season to be jolly...falallalallalalalala~~

reminiscence the good 'ol days

2007-12-06T21:37:00.001+08:00

It's been already 5 yrs since I graduated from my high school! I'm getting old...Sobz*

I recall back in the school days when all of us were still so naive and stress free-just living life like nobody's business . Wake up in the morning, go to school , attend tuition (if any..) , go home , online and sleep. That was practically what i did on weekdays . My frens and I would normally plan ahead for the coming weekends, sometimes as early as two weeks in advance, jus to make sure our plan goes well and everybody has gained their parents' permission .Even a simple outing eg. shopping or 'yum cha' somewhere needs proper planning to make it work. Transport was always our main issue to deal with when it comes to group outing=p Imagine having to ask each of our parents if they're willing to fetch us to the destined place & ask for additional money to go out *lols* and we usually resort to public transports to solve the problem. Now that we're older , we got our driving licenses & nobody's willing to take public transports to go out anymore, we rather just stay at home instead =p

It's funny and at the same time, amazed when the someone whom i hated so much during my primary years eventually became one of my best friends instead=) We were in the same tuition during std 6 & I remember bitching bout her & her then group of friends; and i was sure she too, was doin the same thing to me. Typical "u don't like me so i don't like u " culture thing,hAhah* Not only did we end up in the same high school, both of us were in the same school transport together and in Form 2, both of us even went to the same class! Coincidence? u tell me. Eventually my friendship with her and the rest of the girls began ..and our journey is yet to end =)

We were so close that our fello, Nigel even referred us as "togetherness" - u see one, u see all. It was supposed to be a sarcastic statement but we were all cool with it so hence, the term stays=p We usually stay back after school hours to hang out at Atria, a mall nearby our school.We 'll purposely miss our transport home then have our lunch there while having our daily dose of gossips. Then we'll walk to either Lyn or Ct's house to continue our lepak session and while walking, I remember us singing some pop songs together, which was a big hit during our high school days, heheheheh! (hey! i'm sure u guys did that before=p)

When the sun set and it was time to go home , few of us who've already missed our transport gotta scratch our heads to figure out our way home. Sometimes if we were lucky we'll hav our parents to fetch us , or nots we'll take the Bus No.11. Tho the walking distance from the school back home isn't that near, somehow we actually enjoyed it last time=) There was once when we actually walked home under the pouring rain , all our uniforms were wet and school shoes were all soaked in rainwater. Yet, we still hav the mood to laugh at each other.. *sigh..* the good ol days...

Our stories during the younger years can never be told finish.There's just too many to tell - be it happy or sad stories. We did have our inner conflicts and arguments back then but now we even brought 'em up during our chit chatting sessions as inside jokes.. N yes, PW will never stop repeating the time when i refused to lend her my Moral book and Jc will always remember my obsession with N'sync (=P) n yada yada...How time flies.. They say thou shall not dwell in the past but focus on the present n future..Sometimes, the past memories are too sweet to let go..and it's the past that shapes who am i today ..n i'm proud of it=p

- New Year's eve 2 yrs ago -

- pics taken in Malacca few yrs back-

- I'm so gonna get killed for posting these pics up=p -

headache.

2007-12-06T17:43:00.000+08:00

Job seeking is a pure frustration.

So which should i opt for?

CIMB ?

IBM?

Ernst & Young Advisory?

*Siggghhh*

GrooVy JAzz

2007-12-06T16:06:00.001+08:00

A day before my bday celebration at Atrium , we had a rather chilling beer session at Groove Junction in Hartamas. For once a few of us were there early for dinner (usually we just meet up after 10pm) before the live band performance began. Most of us. which include me , aren't reallie fans of Jazz music.

The guys + Jazz = zero correlation ;

and it's ironic that Foo decided on the place and everybody seemed fine with it. Maybe they jus wanna try out something new, rather than the usual hang our place @ Decanter's.

The idea of choosing Groove Junction as the venue for fri night wasn't mainly cause of the music but always for one thing-BEER. Apparently , Groove Junction had this Beer promo goin on for the whole month of November and they called it Novemberfest. hAHha* A jug of beer was goin for only RM29++ all night long which is slightly cheaper than Decanter's. For the guys, it was like heaven to them! In total, they ordered plus minus 15 jugs of beer and we actually stayed there the whole night watching and listening to the live jazz performances. ^.^

I felt inferior to see people actually enjoyed watching the performance and i don't=p Late comers who came purposely for the live band were charged just to enter the place. Honestly, i wouldn't pay to watch =p I never fancy live bands..esp the one in Havanita/ Poppy. They're noisy and all they do is spoil the nice songs by remixing them.Ugly.

- beers. beers. beers. -

- The guy in pink , Me & Raz -

- Ti pui & Gan calling each other to drink -

- Snap!!-
- tukar wajar tiba-tiba -

- Frens .. -

- ... then gay =p -

- "Smile! Ur on Candid Camera! " -

Lesson learned : i can never listen to jazz for more than an hour. Overdose of jazz and i'll get bored quickly. At one point of time i thought i was gonna doze off and sleep if not for the "Stand By Me" song they played to entertain the crowd=p JW was dared by Shan to go on stage and dance with the band singer and as a reward, he'll be givin Jw RM50 for the brave act.. lolss* and he DID!! His share for beer ended up to be free that night , how nice, heheh*

B for Boring

2007-12-06T16:06:00.000+08:00

\
There's always plans for the weekends and i'm always up for it. Be it clubbing, drinking. yumcha. dinners, or jus chillin at somebody's place.The last weekend, unfortunately was a boring one. We were at Decanter's on Fri, but only half of the whole group went. No drinking games, no sofa seats and they only had 2 jugs of beer. Very unlikely but according to 'em, they were in Puchong for some drinking the day before at some unknown place, more like a guys' out thang.-and they felt bloated , hence, no excessive alcohols for 'em.. Furthermore, november turned out to be a rather 'dry' month for them, cash flowed like water due to over spending of alcohols and all the bday celebrations in the month=p Trip to Decanter's turned out to be a failure. We left the place as early as 12 plus n we ended up chit chatting at a mamak in ss2 for nearly 2 hours=p We called it 'an early night' .

We were at Havanitas/Poppy on the very next day. Most of the guys went but nobody was into drinking that night so only a few bottles were opened. Yet, the liquor level in the bottle was decreasing at a slow speed..which is, very very weird indeed. A very rare sight for the group, seriously! Amy was supposed to join us with Yap later that night..i was so bored that i text msged her to come quick to entertain me=p Both of em arrived the place at bout 2pm ^.^ By then i've already lost my mood to dance and the stupid live band just ended . It was by far the most boring clubbing night ever . Poppy extended its closing time to 3.30am that night..wth?! *geram* The DJ sucked btw..

We've made an agreement not to reserve seats at Havanita's coz of the live band. Hopefully the next time we're there, we would be having a table in Poppy area instead =)

Party @ Scarlet

2007-12-06T14:51:00.000+08:00

24th November 07

Mun Foo's 22nd Birthday @ Scarlet

Birthday Boy, Jess, Raz & Shan
- " Avoid Hangovers ... Stay Drunk! " -

Ti Pui, Shan & Raz
- Check out Shan's super glaring shirt , Lolz -

- the lovely couple : Yifei & Michelle -
aawww...

- Wai Kit, Shan, Tipui, Amanda, Munfoo & Jon -

- Gan's attempt to steal the spotlight... -

- ...poor Amy completely hidden from the pic =D -

- Cheers!! ~ -
- We had the whole upper level area that night.. Awesome! -
- Bouncers were there to make sure no strangers invading our territory -

- Amy, Me , Sharon -
- Wai Kit & Ti Pui "tumpang glamour" heheh -

- my one & only 'kaki' left in PeeJay =p -

- Toast to the big gathering.. -

- Jessidee, me & Amy -
- Jess was reeaalllllyyy tipsy that night..thanks to both of us..muahahah -

- Jaa & I -
- he wasn't drunk .. for once..lols -

the decent pose
- Yap & Jason & Jess -

- us -

- before meeting up with the guys.. -

Since the place closed at 2, all of us had another after-party drinking session back at Birthday boy's supersized house.We were feasting on KFC fried chickens complimentary from Foo while he was busy calling everyone to finish up his huge Chivas Cannon , heheeh=P We didn't manage to make the birthday boy down that night as he is, no doubt a very good drinker. He may be small but never ever test his ability on alcohols! crazy fella... =pP

A night in KL

2007-11-29T17:42:00.000+08:00

Staying at Sheraton Imperial was a bliss.

We managed to get a room at the Executive Club Floor, where the rooms are only for Starwood Priviledged Guests=) Interior of the room is slightly better than Westin's - more of colonial style compare to the modern furnishing in Westin . Room's also bigger and the washroom is beautiful with gold finishings=p Somehow the bed can't be compared to the Heavenly bed @ Westin.. but still, it's a truly memorable stay for us..

my burfday presenttttsss !!

all from him..
Thanks a lot for the wonderful celebration =)

i giv him credits for making such a beautiful pop up card
i didnt know he has the talent=p

At Villa Danielli for dinner..

my 2nd birthday cake..i made more wishes than yrs before..

- Villa Danielli -

.*. The Room .*.

.*. Bathroom .*.

`*-. us acting like jakuns .-*`

-end-

B-day Part 2

2007-11-29T16:40:00.000+08:00

-Party at-

ATRIUM @ Asian Heritage Row

*- Aaron , Me, Ti Pui -*

*- Joe & Mua-*

-* Gary , Me & ChoonWeng *-

*- the usual ladies -*

*- Charles , Ernest & Chisin ( pronounced like it=p) -*

*- Jw trying to prevent me from getting drunk by helping to sip away the Flaming Lambo -*

*- Kenneth, PeiYin, Jeff, Joe & Charles -*

*- They luRvee the camera -*

*- Special guests of the night : My two beautiful sisters -*
-* Younger(left) :Kate & Elder: Daphne *-

with:
*- Yap (left) : His laughter makes u laugh as well -*
*- Gan : the entertainer, no drinking games will b fun without him doin all the silly mistakes=p -*

*- Jw buddies : Shan, Jon, Sharon, Aaron and Jason -*

*- Kenneth , Yiing and Alex -*

xxxxxxx

Once Again ...
Thanks For Coming, Everyone !
(= Love y'all =)

xxxxxxx

the B-DAY part 1

2007-11-28T17:26:00.000+08:00

* my "B"-DAY *
xoxo
PART ONE

|| BIG day... ||

|| BIRTHday.. ||

|| and BEST day .. ||

(17/11/07-18/11/07)

~ THE DINNER ~

- the girls @ PREGO -

- Pw & Wf -
- Yiing, Me & Pikwah -

- Yenyih & Liyiing -

- i do the poking and he does the Peace sign -

- the ones who "layan" me the most -

- Jaa + Me + Yy -

- blowing candles with a red nose *grins* -

- Group pictures -

- posing with our red noses -

- He who gives me the best of everything -

- i AM happy!-
- obviously... =p -

- Nigel who just got bk from NZ -

- jC & eDDY -

- me- the birthday girl & boyfriend -

- look at my scrumptious cake *hahaha* -

- may i poke ur big red nose? -

THANK YOU GIRLS FOR THE DINNER..!!
.. love the presents, tenkius*
..
-pics can be taken from facebook-will be uploaded soon-

weekend nights

2007-11-28T17:18:00.001+08:00

I know i havent been updating this blog for so damn long, so sowee to those who actually bother to read my site...If any, that is =p Nothing interesting or sizzling hot happened to a boring girl like me ever since i quit my job. Ask if i'm working yet..No. And i've no regrets quitting the previous. I'm finally hired by CIMB ..ah-huh, proud of myself for goin thru so many stages of the recruiting process. Not much of a failure i suppose but still, it's not my ideal job.I hope IBM will take me in tho so i don't need to bond with CIMB for 2 n a half years. That's a pretty big sacrifice to make there.. *sighs*

Enuff of my usual job seeking updates. I have no idea what to blog. I've got lotsa pictures but very little story to tell=p Weekdays were boring, attended several interviews, medical checkups here n there and normal lunches and dinners. My goin-out "kaki" had flown to Miri couple of days ago for some job assignment. Lyn..Lyn..come back quick!=p As well as Joanne, in Kota Bharu now..also for her job attachment. Geezz..everyone's getting busy doin something productive except for me.

We hanged out at 2 clubs in Peejay on one of the weekends ( my definition of weekend- Fri & Sat ya;) - Scarlet & Bamboo9 . I was abit curious to know the design n interior of Scarlet since they actually asked more than 6000 local ladies to vote for the ideal design of the club before constructing it,or so i heard. When i got there the place wasn't very fantastic, it was pretty plain and apart from the nice Vodka bottles arrangement at the entrance and the Dj area which spins, there was nothing else to shout about . The colour of the place's more of black than the name says. I expected more scarlet reds but no... While the music they played was okay , the place has no dance floor and similar to the rest of the clubs in PJ, it closes at 2am!

*Advice for the ladies - do not wear super low plunging tops if u don't intend to expose anything=p They have a small VIP area located at the upper level-u nit to take a mini staircase to go up there so ladies shouldn't wear mini skirts or u'll be giving free show while ur up there=p

-Scarlet @ Cineleisure-

pink area- where the Vodka bottles were arranged

The next night on the same week we headed to Bamboo9, another new nightspot in PJ located in Tmn tun plaza, if u knoe where it is.. I guess this is one of the few clubs in Pj which require cover charge to enter. The place is quite small- adding the fact that there was a function goin on that night which took half of the area. The bottles there are expensive too..u might as well drive a lil further to kl for a more happening club. Inside, it looks more like a bar than a club. They also have dancers there and lucky thing the ladies don't look too ugly either. Mayb it's the space constraint- the place has no dance floor so the crowd made their own little dance area in front of the DJ =p

I prefer Scarlet more tho- mayb cuz the place's bigger and it's more happening. But clubs in KL are definitely better than PJ's.

- @ Bamboo9-

helluva job

2007-11-12T19:40:00.000+08:00

I started my first ever job as a management trainee in xXx bank ( u knoe well..) few weeks ago while waiting for other prospective replies from other companies. The first day of work turned out to be okay , not great, practically my whole day was spent in the learning centre, doin nothing productive as tho i was back to my kindergarten days. We played with crayons alot - hell a lot ! the amount of crayons i used could sum up to the amount i used in the past 10 yrs!no joke, n i hate crayons, i hav to 'revisit' the sink of the loo each time i finished a drawing session. Super troublesome and dirty. Can't imagine myself doing colourings on mahjong papers when we're actually so called credit mgmt trainees. Shouldn't we be doin something more professional and less time consuming?...i wonder.

I tot that was jus gonna be the first day, ok, it wasn't that tiring and it wasn't too boring either.It was jus too meaningless.I've a fren who worked there as well, same position,diff batch. N he does a lot of drawings with crayons up till today.The first day i was already told that it's a must to stay back till 10-11 pm everyday for the trainee without getting paid for OT.What's worse is u might not even get an increment of salary after confirmation AND u won't get bonus if ur an officer." Wth?? " NO OT-fine, No Increment?-bearable- , NO BOnus- cannot make it..pretty de-motivating. I understand if u dun get any bonus if ur new to the company but even when ur officer u dun get bonus? i hav to be an officer for at least 2 yrs!! i reallie don't understand their system..did i mention their strict grooming rules(ladies must wear nail polish & blazer) and our CMT's obnoxious head? blahs..

So that was it. It was so de-motivating that i applied for MC to do my CIMB presentation, jus 2nd of work=p I didnt actually plan to do my presentation for CIMB but since my first day was THAT sucky..i might as well jus go for it. Power point presentation not easy ok..i spent bout 4 hrs preparing it last min. I thought im gonna fail miserably but luck came to me. I hav final interview with 'em tomoro=) i would be happier if CIMB's other companies which i wana be in..sigh* i wonder how long more to wait for their replies..i dun wanna bond with cimb jus yet.

The thought of quitting my XxX job grew stronger after the first day of working. Then i decided to tolerate for one whole month, get my first salary and say farewell to my colleagues=p Basically my 2nd n 3rd working days were in the hotel, attending talks and sharpening our presentation skills. Talks were as expected- BORING but bearable.If it's not for the free lunches n tea breaks i would've collapsed in the ball room. I was so damn sleepy ,back in the college days where i can doze off anytime during the lecture,this time i couldn't even afford to close my eyes longer than 5 secs=p The 3rd day pissed me off coz we were supposed to off bout 6..n it got delayed to 6.45 when my boyfren was alreadi waiting outside the hotel at that time.Then our head told us to stay back and we were not allowed to leave so early.WTF??! "At least tell earlier la sheesh..not everyone owns a car..dumbass" I had no idea where he put his rationality at - he required all of us to go back to the learning centre, which is in PUDU and the hotel's in BKT bintang! By then my anger was already at the super high level jus like a volcano waiting to erupt..tak beh tahan! I had to ask my boyfren to go home n wait for my call n in the meantime i tumpang my fren's car back to pudu. The dongkoi head then did some briefing with us..n he actually called each n everyone of us to go bk to pudu bcoz he himself forgot to bring an article which was supposed to b our assignment!

Geramm* !! Why the heck must we go bk there bcoz of one person's fault. The amt of time jamming all the way bk to pudu's even longer than the time he took to brief us. The previous assignment that my colleagues did on the 2nd day of work on mahjong papers (i was on MC=p)- he demanded 'em to finish it on fri-with every single white space of the mahjong paper-COLOURED! nonsensical huh?? imagine how big the mahjong paper is and u had to colour every single white detail with crayons with only 2 in a team and deepavali hol was only a day away-which means they only hav a day to finish it PLUS 2 more assignments due the same day. this is STUPID. not to say it's important to have it coloured anyway right..somebody pls help me to find some sense in this..*sighhsss* My poor boyfren had to come back all the way to kl again- jam for another hour plus for jus 5 mins of briefing. grrrrrrr*

Since i couldn't stand the job any longer i finally decided to quit jus after 3 days of working.What's the point of holding on when u've lose interest right.. i dun wan to continue doin all these stupid assignments when i know for sure i'll b quitting and it's jus the matter of time. I handed in my resignation letter the next day and now i'm officially UNEMPLOYED again=p at least i got a one week salary, not too bad huh. Many asked me the reason y i quit when i was being paid that amt of money. May seemed high but if u actually study ur maths, i dun get bonus so it all summed up the same as other jobs-cept that it's more pointless than the rest.Some assumed that i couldnt handle long working hrs and shouldnt look for the starting pay. I wouldnt mind working long hrs if its for a prestigious company but with slightly lower pay.Just not my cup of tea.I may be PICKY but that could be the starting of my future career, so how not to be ?

Grandma 60th

2007-11-09T01:49:00.001+08:00

It was my beloved grandma 60th birthday last week and we did a big surprise party for our wonderful lady at a private place in Kepong. The place- 3 storeys high with a karaoke lounge, super sound & lighting system, bar area on both floors with plush sofa seats n elevator was wholly owned by a minister as his chill out place. He's a friend of my aunt and he actually allowed her to open a party there.. not bad tho, tho i was a bit sceptical initially when i was told that the party will be in a nice place somewhere in Kepong=p

:: the place ::

:: huge screen for the karaoke session.. n that's only the 1st floor=p ::
:: situated along the row of shophouses, based on the outlook, u can hardly imagine the interior of this place to be like this .Duh, It's supposed to be private ::
:: This is what the riches spend on when they have nothing else to spend ::

:: My Grandpa & Grandma=) ::

:: She's under the "Top Wonderful Women in the world" in my list ::

:: Her rough journey of life during her younger years earned my respect ::

:: 60 years of human age ::
:: Neverending strengths, love and care ::
:: we love u, grandma!=) ::

:: i thought there was just gonna b us and a few of my aunties uncles ::
:: Didn't expect to see so many of my relatives there.. ((approx 60, banyak give face )) ::
:: my grandma refused to accept any gifts and ang-pows.. wasted!! she's jus too nice ::
:: grandpa would have happily accepted all kinds of gifts if he was in her shoes.. I will Too=p ::

:: the cake cutting ceremony..hehe ::

:: sis & grandpa ::

:: Jaa & I ::

:: photo grabbed from sis::
:: liquor will nvr go wrong in a party.. even for the elderly ::
:: did i mention my 13 yr old cousin got drunk after consuming beer?yea, just 13, w/out parents' approval ::
:: kids nowadays trying to act 'cool' , *tsk tsk* ::

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY GRANDMA ~!!

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usual friday night..

2007-11-09T01:16:00.000+08:00

The crowd in Poppy has been decreasing , or maybe just the illusion due to their extension. Area from the left of the entrance had been extended to cater for the bigger crowd during the weekends. At first i wasn't aware of the new space and even thought that Rumjungle has merged with Poppy! silly~ =p Maybe they jus overestimated the num of ppl clubbing in Poppy during the weekends, it just doesnt seem so happening anymore. I was abit surprised to see how spacious and airy the so called dance floor was at about 1 am! not to mention how empty it was then...the place was supposed to be crowded by that time but turned out the total opposite.. very weird indeed. Maybe it's time to find for somewhere new to hang out=p Poppy's turning to another la-la club anyway.. We were there on Fri, i forgot which date it was and the DJ sucked! *big boos*

Nothing extraordinary about that night anyway..jus giving some rantings and updates to my blog=p And since i took a few pics with my phone cam, might as well jus blog bout it=p

~ Sharon , Me & Amy ~

~ With Gun ~

~ Jasidee (drunk) : "let me stand here in peace pls..." ~

~ Boyfren who nvr fails to get high in clubs , LoLs ~

~ Jon, Jw, me, Raz ~

Ball night

2007-10-21T00:05:00.000+08:00

19 Oct 2007

- DESCO BALL -

Pictures..Pictures & More Pictures !!~

- Almost all of us attended the ball -

- UOL-ians :: -
- SuetYun, Su Ann, Choonweng, Yiwei, Wengfoong, Peiyin, Gary, Kenneth, JiaWei, Alex, Joe-
-Shon, Cindy, Pikwah, Me, Elicia & 2 other ladies (Soweee..no idea what're their names)-

- I'm with Mr. Charming , lolss=D -

- the gents looking good and all well groomed for the night -
- The Notorious 4 =p -

- The eligible gents 2007 -
- Ladies, grab your man! They're all single & available ! -
- p/s: except for Mr.Fit who was sitting on the left , Labuan King with the white tie, Mr. Cave in his 'yau yeng' glasses and of course, the pretty boy standing at the most right =p -

- 3 black beauties & i=) -

- Double- couple -

- " Aren't we too cool for you? " -

- Peiyin & Joe -

- Peiyin, Pikwah, Cindy & me :) -
- i feel so 'colour-isolated' , hehe* -

- Jw looking stoned .. o.O -

- A pic with our beloved Maths lecturer Dr. Goh Seng -
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- Dr Goh: Genius in numbers, good dancer & a brilliant singer (no kiddin!)

-he even created a song out of even & odd functions (..n that's maths! ) now this is a man worth respecting , hehe*

- i don't bother taking pics with other lecturers coz he's prolly the only lecturer who doesn't think i'm dumb (datz good..dats good..) -

- Dr. Goh : "U better ask ur boyfren Jiawei to go class ar..advise him" -

- Me: " Har?? oh..how u know he's my boyfren?! "

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- Dr. Goh with his beloved students. haha* -
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Alex : " Sir..break! "

Joe: " Sir, u didn't explain to me how to get this answer then how i know?? "
Kenneth : " Wah sir, very hard ar this topic.."
Yw: " Zzzzz .."
Dr. Goh: " Jiawei, u better come for class or nots you'll b very left behind huh.."
Jw: " ... [-.-"] "

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- Pretty Ladies -
- Those not mentioned above:: Cave's gf, Jacklyn, Amy, SuetMun, YeeYee -

- Jw: " How do i look ?" -
- Shon : " Irresistible! " -

- Our UOL representatives , Rapper Edwin & Singer Dita -
- Performing Rihanna's Umbrella & P.Diddy's "Last Night" -

- " I'm occupied both left & right ... " -

- The men in black except for Yw in white -
- Choon Weng - DESCO 2007 PROM KING *Claps* *claps* -

- with Yw, Mr. Prom King, Kenneth & Alex -

- after the ball... -

- Our gents reallie love the camera.. -

- Joe looking Awesome with his red bow tie on his head -

- the four DJ-ians for the night =) : Py, Joquinn, Me & Pw -

- thanks for the flowers=) -
- thanks Noah, for the uh, beautiful wrapping =p -

- getting ready for the after ball party @ Poppy -

The "ones-who-drank-too-much-at-Poppy" list :

shon
Kenneth
joe &
Py

-.. and that would be my last college ball ever in my life *sob sob* -

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what we call LIFE

2007-10-20T17:01:00.000+08:00

My boyfriend's birthday celebration just doesn't end with one party . On his birthday itself, both of us had our own celebration @ the Westin Hotel=) That's bcoz a month earlier he'd applied for the Starwood Priviledge Card , which comes with a complimentary stay voucher in any Starwood Hotels, hehe* Tho the card was slightly priced on the steeper side i must say that it actually provides pretty good benefits and priviledges including discounts for restaurants and room rates. Ask me for more info if you're interested in applying the card=p Our 24 hr stay at Westin was brilliant...much better than Marriott, which i liked to stay for a night or two when i had the YTL card..Yes, i do enjoy staying at nice hotels (when i have the $$ and the occasion to do so..) u ppl will understand once you've experience the total indulgence of it=')

(above: view from our room)
(below: the pool)

(lunch @ Prego)

Upon arrival we had our 2-course lunch at Prego , the food wasn't bad but not too fantastic either. Thumbs up for their services tho. I wish every restaurant offers the same service as they do but bahss..anyway, we checked into our room after lunch and for the first time I got to finally experienced the comfort of their signature Heavenly Bed.. IT was sooooo soft and comfy that anyone could fall asleep on it right away! the price of the bed was 10 k fyi, and my boyfriend said it was considered cheap (?) We wanted to take a dip in their swimming pool but unfortunately it rained the whole afternoon. Stupid Weather. I hate rainy days now *gRaRrr* ( our room & the Heavenly Bed)

( one of my gifts to him=) )

Since we had nothing much to do after loitering for bout 2 hrs in the room and opening his presents given by non-other than = ME , we decided to go for tea time at TREATS cafe in the hotel itself. Everything in Westin is HEAVENLY..! Even the cakes and pastries in the cafe looked awesome and mouth-watering.. I reallie reallie wanted to try all of 'em but both our stomach just couldn't fit all=p We had berry trifle & chocolate doughnut, similar to the BIg Apple's choreo doughnut..and OMG ,it tasted 100x better than Big Apple's.. drools* We even get discounts on the total bill.. the perks of having that card, muahaha*

( selections at Treats :P )

We were so darn full that we had to postponed our dinner supposingly at 7pm to 8 pm at Qba Latin Grill & Bar. If u were to dine in Westin, make sure u choose Qba coz #1 the food's delicious ,#2 it's a place to impress ur girlfren/boyfren #3 ambience's spectacular and #4 staffs there are very professional and attentive..u'll love the attention given to u..Obviously, the price isn't friendly, u pay for what u get..A price of a simple steak with no side dishes or etc starts from RM105+ (yikes!) We were seated at the private dining area overlooking the open kitchen.. Would like to sit by the balcony to enjoy the live band downstairs the next time we visit tho.. i forgot to bring along a camera ..which means all the pics were taken using our camera phones=)

( Qba's interior..)

( his rib eye steak )

By the time our dinner ended it was alredi near 11pm and all the shopping malls were closed and we were left with nowhere to go. There wasn't even space in our stomachs to go for yumcha at that time so we ended up walking around the golden triangle and headed back up to our heavenly room=p I had by far, the best sleep ever in monthss and the very next day i was so unwilling to get up from the bed to check out..yes, it was THAT comfy! We ended our stay with a buffet lunch @ the Living Room before our check out. How nice if only life continues to be this way..

Happy Birthday to you again!! =))

Jia Wei's 22nd Birthday

2007-10-18T21:20:00.000+08:00

|| Last Saturday ||

Jw's birthday celebration @ Peninsula Suites, D'sara Heights.
More than 30 fellow friends attended the party-cum-gathering (Thank you all! :> )
Beers & food were provided by Jaa & I for the guests, whilst few others brought liquors
Guys were busy cheering and drinking with the birthday boy =p
Some were hyperactive, some went tipsy and got the crowd crazy (alcohol's influence..=p)
Birthday boy went cuckoo by 1am- started babbling craps & calling everyone by their full names..
Birthday boy was finally DOWN at about 2.30 a.m - more than half of the crowd left
The remaining few continued their own 'party' while I was busy clearing up the leftover mess =( (it was really really messy!!)
I had to drink with Raz, Gun and etc since Jw was too drunk to drink.They were having fun mixing all the liquor (Dimple,Chivas,beer,Bombay..etc) and downing 'em. It tasted AWEFUL..these guys hav no talents i tell you =p
I was too tired to 'layan' em further as i was getting a bit tipsy too=p I went to my room and doze off while they were still outside having their own sweet time drinking and chit chatting.. the next thing i know, the sun was up and i could still hear their laughters. They only left the place at 7 plus in the morning.. *salute*
Bad bad hangover for the birthday boy the very next day..

>> My tom yam fried rice- hey, i got credits for this ok?=p <<

>> i did all these by myself in the hotel..except for the sausages Jw cooked, hehe <<

>> with Ernest, pikwah, Lyn, Apple, Cw, Cave (aiks..wonder what was he doin) <<

>> the early birds- Cw, Apple, Lyn, Amy & Pikwah <<
<< ... Wf, Nim, Alex, Noah and Peiyin >>

>> Charles with his red face & Cave who was trying to make his eyes look bigger <<

>> Birthday Boy having fun with Yap, Jon, Jasidee, Ti Pui, Phillip, Peng, & Yifei <<

>> the big picture! =) <<

>> guess where's Noah?? =p <<

>> Ernest's funky jeans got their attentions <<
>> rated 18SG <<

>> Noah lost chor ti game to Jw and he wasked to strip dance on the coffee table <<

>> ... but the crowd gave it another twist..he had to strip dance FOR Jw ! <<

<< " oh my god ! " >>
>> sorry bday boy we were not nice enough to hire u a better stripper, at least, a female *hahHAha* <<

>> Jw & Cave aka Gerrard for the night <<

>> Towards the end of the party .. Drunkard on the left =p <<

>> The men - Jw looking stoned <<
>> He couldn't even remember taking this picture <<

>> gone case <<
>> Jaa with Toothpaste all over his hair! <<

<< ... and i had to cover 'em with tissue to avoid dirtying the pillows! =p >>

++ end ++

CamEron '07

2007-10-14T14:52:00.000+08:00

++ AUGUST 2007 ++

>> drinking games got us high on the first night @ Cameron=)=) <<

>> Jc & Me <<
>> chilling by the garden of our rented bungalow <<

>> our 2 nights' crib <<
>> BeYooTiFulllLL !!<<
>> The weather, the greeneries, the flowers, the house.. AWESOME <<

>> the 12 of us <<
>> Jw, Mua, Pw, Wf, Euvern, Lyn, Jc, Eddy, Yenyih, Yiing, Kenny, Amy <<

>> Posing in front of the bungalow <<

>> Lyn, Amy & I @ the Lakehouse <<

>> ... <<

>> pure relaxation <<
>> postcard picture *wahhahah* <<

>> ...2 Posers & an unidentified image *lolz=D* <<

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pros & cons

2007-10-09T17:18:00.000+08:00

Got a well paid job *smile*
Thick bonus coz it's a bank *smile*
21 days annual leave *Big smile*
Goin Bangkok in January with Jw, Jc, Lyn and etc*Huge Smile*

Starting work in November *sigh*
My birthday's in November *sigh..sigh*
Having to stuck in traffic jams twice daily,10 times a week *big sigh*
Latest off work time: 11 pm or so i heard *big big sigh*
Trained in Pudu for 2 months *Super BIG sigh*

Next Vision :

Search for another job while waiting for November to arrive *peace*

culture shock (?)

2007-10-09T16:25:00.000+08:00

Gun (or Gan? oopz) celebrated his 22nd birthday at Crown Regency last Friday. As usual ,to them no party is complete without alcohols ! t was a 3 rooms apartment just big enough to cater for more than 20 of us.Met a few of them who used to hang out nearby my place..I was a lil shocked . It turned out that all of us know the same group of friends- just that we each didnt know about it.. How interesting.. It was the usual gathering cept that it didnt take place in the club . No dancing but most of them were busy downing their fav drinks and challenging each other (Ti Pui and Yap) to c who's the best drinker, Lols..Ti Pui emerged as the Winner of the battle and Yap was D.R.U.N.K so he had to overnight at the hotel that night:P

>> just lotion, dudes!:p <<

>> Left : the Winner .. Right: Gone Case <<

Wondering what was our gift to the birthday boy?A stripper! No kiddin..I was stunned to hear bout the idea at first but eventually i found it interesting. Afterall what's wrong with having once in a lifetime exposure right...hehehhe .We blindfolded the birthday boy who had no idea about what was goin on then while waiting anxiously for the stripper to be ready. We were practically sitting in a circle around Gun who was sitting on a dining chair at the center just to get a better view of the show..ehhe The stripper finally came out and strut her 'thing' ..It was a culture shock for me and Sharon but all of us couldnt stop laughing at the birthday boy's expression.=D Half way thru the ladies were told to go into the room as we were not allowed to watch the second half of the show coz Gun was feelin' shy, haha.. The whole stripper thingy lasted bout half an hour. Some of the guys said it was only worth half the money paid coz she wasn't pretty at all and she didn't know how to make the 'show' interesting...Lolzz Anyhow, it was a funny experience for me & most of them :)

>> the guys...while waiting.. <<

>> blindfolding the birthday boy <<
>> Gun : " Ei, no drugs ar! No drugs!" <<

Happy Birthday Gun!!=)

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walk-a-thon

2007-10-09T15:19:00.001+08:00

I've been busy shopping for my upcoming college ball for the past one week ..didn't know it was such a tough task, pfft* I seem like a tourist in KL hopping from one mall to another for one whole bloody day. Madness and utterly tiring ! Last monday we were in KL hoping to find for a nice decent dress since the golden triangle's the ultimate shopping spots for KL-ians.We walked from Sg Wang, then to Lot10, KL plaza, BB plaza and to Pavillion but yet couldnt even manage to find a single lookable dress! Pavillion seems to be a very nice place to shop tho, if only it's not that far from PJ=( Geramm* It was like walking the whole entire kl but u came back empty handed. Not satisfied, we headed over to Midvalley and The Gardens for dinner and shop again..This time i finally took off my heels and changed to my comfy flats=) My feet were killing me after one whole day of walking on heels! smart enough for me to leave a pair of slippers in the car *grins* Sad to say the trip was not fruitful at all..i should've known since KL has practically all the shops in Midv/Gardens..maybe even more.. God knows how many thousands of miles i'd walked dat day..

Finally i decided to tailor make a dress, i tot i could save my time as well as the hassle of walking again but reality doesn't turn out to be that way..Thanks jw anyway for helping me to search for all the tailors in PJ =) After a few rounds of tailor hopping on tue and finally set for the suitable one , i was all set to get the material needed for the design i wanted. I needed some kind of rubber cloth similar to satin for the dress i wanted to make but the shops in ss2 do not sell that type of material.arghhh* Geram case # 2. In the end i had to make a move to petaling st in KL- a place where i never thought myself would be, not even passing by.. There i was paying a visit to all the textile shops to enquire bout the material but to no avail. I thought tailor making was easy but hell no! Just imagine how many places i've went in these two days.I think i've walked the entire KL, seriously! this is Crazy.Not wanting to go on like this, I decided to change my design and go for a simpler one like this :
The very next day i went back to the same tailor thinking it was easier to get satin rather than the elastic fabric. Apparently this design was way harder to do than the first. Geram case #3 . I seriously thought it was simpler..haha .. I went for another round of tailor hopping and a few of them actually turned down the job cos they couldnt do it. How complicated that can be...sigh* One tailor even told me to rent from the bridal shops nearby..what the hell.. I wasn't willing to change the design cuz i started to like it so much..Thank god we managed to find a tailor somewhere in Kelana who was willing to make it for me. At first she didn't wan to coz of time constraint but after much pleadings and persuasion she finally gave in =) We were SOOOo relieved after settling bout my dress..the past week was by far the worst shopping trips ever in my entire life.. Unbelievably tough. I actually fell sick after running the errands .. This is not cool...

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simple life

2007-10-09T14:41:00.000+08:00

I went for a day's trip to Kluang (for the noobies, it's in Johor:P) last week with Jw , just to get an insight of how his hometown looks like and to visit his parents. The journey to Kluang is approx 3 hours from KL , which is quite the same distance as from here to Penang.. Ppl in Kluang lead a pretty simple life. They work, go for lunch, yumcha, off work , go home and watch tv. That's exactly what they do everyday. Friday nights don't seem to be appealing to them. U don't see any shops opening at the wee hours of late night except for one or two mamak stalls, no discos/pubs/clubs/bars or whatsoever nightlife, no big shopping complex (cuz there are no market there..) , no massive HongKong food outlets eg Kimgary & etc and only 5% of the population in Kluang smokes =p Healthy-nye...

I looked silly in his sunnies ..

..starting off the journey ..

We didnt reallie do anything interesting there ('coz reallie, there weren't much to do) apart from eating and savouring his grandma's cooking=p They have a famous burger stall in Kluang too where they use eggs which contain double yolks ..i was too full to enjoy the burger we bought but i think it would taste awesome if i wasn't that bloated.Oh, I managed to have late lunch at the original Kluang station before heading back to kl tho=) Trust me, the original one was way better than the ones in kl. At least they have the actual railway station there to add up to the ambience=p I guess i gained a few pounds after the trip .. yikes..!

Crack..! and down came the yolks..

Burger patties..with all sorts of spices and flavourings

The original Kluang station ..

We both each had nasilemak, half boiled eggs, toast buns, breads , coffee & Milo ..and it costs less than 10 bucks! =p

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dot dot dot ...

2007-09-25T22:09:00.000+08:00

Hope October will be a fun happening month for me since it could be my last month of holiday before starting work =/ At least i have something to look fwd to..

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In October..i have :

Birthdays - a few being my bf's , Yi Wei, Pw's darling etc etc
My college prom at Renaissance- yes, on the 19th, buy ur tickets now if u haven't=p
Numerous shopping trips - revamping my whole wardrobe and stock up on my working attires=p
Interview/ assessment - if i'm ever shortlisted for the final assessment for BAT ..which im praying hard for..
Movies to watch- i heard there are pretty nice shows coming up next month
Negotiations- with my dad bout my transportation to work=p
..and other Misc stuff - hoping to have more gatherings and meet ups with fellow friends and blabla

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Bye-bye September

2007-09-25T22:02:00.000+08:00

A month passes so quickly and soon the month of October will greet us..Our trip to Cameron on the national day seemed like it only happened a fortnight ago..how time flies, the year is already approaching the end as well as my slumber holidays! Not only do I feel old cuz i no longer goin to college...but soon enough, in a month or two, i'll be entering the corporate world and that means- no more messing and bumming around anymore =( *Big sigh*

At least my effort of waking up early for interviews did pay off. UOB finally called and good news- I'm employed! haha~ I actually did not intend to go for the interview which was 2 weeks ago but decided to just go for it as a back up plan in case my BAT goes wrong..*touch wood* Nevertheless..UOB is STILL my 2nd choice for now...havent return the offer letter yet cuz i'm still not keen about the job scope and having to be trained in PUDU=p sucky place..gonna have interview with BAT soon this coming thursday.. pray hard for me =p

We sorta celebrated Pw's birthday by having dinner together at Daorae Garden, Hartamas last Sunday. It's a Korean bbq restaurant and their bbq meat is awesome! Worth another visit there =) Hope you like the present we gave u pw~! i wonder if u read my blog still since it's lacking updates lately..hrmmm*

Our collmate, Win Fei a.k.a SWF will be leaving to Scotland to further his studies.. Bon Voyage~ Yet another friend leaving this country, another big sigh .. Guess the guys will be having less "ta kei" or dota sessions without him, haha..Take care Win Fei and all the best to you=)

another turned 22

2007-09-20T16:37:00.001+08:00

-->> Pik Wah <<--

Enjoy this day that's as beautiful as the birthday girl herself.
Hope this year's been great for you..

Looking forward to many more years of fun and friendship with you

-->> H.U.G.S <<--

moody ( ? )

2007-09-19T00:18:00.000+08:00

i'm not so Happy ...

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press rewind

2007-09-18T23:13:00.000+08:00

I wish i could turn back to the time when we were still in high school
when all of us were still what i call- a group.
there werent much diversification.
life was just simple .
Back then, there were ups and downs
now, it was just a boring straight line..
Most of them are busy coping with their new phase of life
new jobs, new mates, new lifestyles
slowly things r drifting apart..
all the latest updates about each other hav gone from 'blur' to 'blank'
Nobody bothered if one knows less than the other.
I miss the times when all gathered for one's problem and try to solve it
Miss the staying over after school sessions,
Miss the times when we laughed even at the least funny jokes
Miss all the innocent thinkings and crazy naughty things we did
and the biggest thing i miss-
i miss us.

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weak-ends

2007-09-18T22:41:00.000+08:00

I missed last wed's mambo jambo night coz i was down with fever-again! just barely a month ago i had the same sickness..pfftt* I haven't been doin alot of updates to this blog recently.Not feeling "happening" at the time being, hence the lack of posts..so u wan more posts, go get me something for me to do=p

Our fellow Ming has finally left to UK to further his studies=) We sent him off at the airport last Sun and being the typical Ming he is , there were no tears nor any signs of missing home=p Anyhow, hope he'll be fine in UK ..without him - there wont be anyone in the group to come out with crazy drinking games , noone to help us get nice tables in Zouk n loft, noone to pour the 'impossible' amount of liquor and still manage to pursuade someone to drink it ,noone to make fun of and yada yada :P We'll definitely feel the difference without him around , hehe

We were at Poppy for Ming's so called farewell last Fri..too bad i had to get home early for my UOB interview the very next morning. Only managed to hav one hour of nap before charging up for the long day. And when i said long day..it reallie was a very LoOOnnnggGGg day. I thought the 'interview' was gonna be from 8-12pm at most but instead it ended at about 5 pm!! 8-5 pm listening to the board of directors' speeches and talks, tea and lunch breaks , assessment..case study..essay..assessment..assessment!! So brain wrecking and i had to fight with the time limit as well as staying awake all the time .. one word- HECTIC>>! at least my time spent didnt come to waste ..i was shortlisted for the final interview=) also the very next morning=/ maybe i should make it my habit to club before an interview...at least i managed to pass my BAT assessment and UOB interview , hahaha* My weekend turned out to be super tiring and i had developed dark circles under my eyes in just one day...lets hope my next interview is not gonna be in the weekends..

luck strikes..

2007-09-11T17:35:00.000+08:00

I passed my BAT assessment!!!!

Yayyyy~!~!~!~!!!!

2 down..2 more stages to go *stress*

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a week passed in a blink of an eye

2007-09-10T15:18:00.000+08:00

Decided to spend my coll mates and jw's friends for dinner at Teluk Gong last thursday to celebrate our graduation and results=) Cw was supposed to split the bill with me to spend our friends dinner but being a busy bee, he wasn't free at dinner time so in the end he bought us bottles at Maison after dinner instead.. thank u cw =) this guy's got power im telling ya.. First Class Hons degree in Uol ! Few hundred bucks to spent us is nothing compare to that isn't it, Cw?*grins* Anyhow, Congrats on ur outstanding achievement~!~!!

Now it's seriously time for me to look for a proper job. Went for BAT's assessment test last Sat and oh god, it was by far the toughest multiple choice questions i ever attempted in my life! I doubt i can make it thru the tests..their requirement was pretty high. Super stressful, of all 12 candidates including me, 70% of them are all experienced sials working in Citibank, Cimb blablabla. I wonder y they bother looking for another job when they're alredi working in such good companies.. give some chance for inexperienced grads like us lah-- =p

3 nights of clubbing ain't fun at all. Not cool- super tiring. First we were at Maison for cw's celebration, next day we were at Poppy for Ben's birthday and on sat we went to Loft, partially for the leftover bottle and Ming's farewell. Been attending too many farewells lately..sobs* so few of them left in M'sia..guess we're not gonna hav a big group of party anytime soon after Ming leaves to UK..

Us @ Daorae Korean Bbq

++ Pics taken a fortnight ago @ Mardigras ++

Peishan's cousin, Lyn & Me

++ Thanks for the pics, Peishan! ++

it was all good

2007-09-06T01:03:00.000+08:00

I stuttered.
I stumbled.
My legs were shaking.
In fact, my body was trembling.
My heart was beating 100 times faster than normal.
My parents' hopes are on me
My future depends so much on this piece of paper
Finally i took a good look at it..
i breathed a sigh of relief
It wasn't a dream
i made it.

=)
thank you god..

country's 50th independence day

2007-09-03T00:22:00.000+08:00

Had pretty fun time @ Poppy last saturday with Amy & jw's frens..met 2 of our high school friends, KohBeng and Jinn at the club..what a surprise O.O didn't exactly had any conversation with them but heard that they were busy working out and building body muscles=pp They do look more buffed up compare to the previous time i met them..very healthy interest afterall, hehe.Meanwhile pikwah and her other half were at Passion celebrating one of their fren's birthday. Joined them for a short moment of dance upstairs after the final song at Poppy and for once Amy got alil tipsy that night=p There was a fight goin on outside the club after the closing and we,being the ever curious and eager-to-know ones, stood by the road and -watch, lolsss. Apparently it was between the Chinese and Indians (or Malays?whatever..) over something stupid..geez, anything is possible when alcohol kicks in... alcohol's bad! =Þ

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It was our 50th Merdeka day last Fri!! ((Lolss)) as if anybody i know actually bother about this 'meaningful' day..the only one thing we love about 31st aug-the day we have PUBLIC HOLIDAY! yAyy~ =Þ Merdeka Eve's just an excuse for us to come out and party together,hehe we decided to celebrate the eve at Mardigras along with Lyn and Amy. Jw and I were there earlier than the rest bout 10 pm so we managed to get into the club to redeem our table, without much hassle. By 11pm the crowd was moving in and there were many ppl waiting to get in outside the entrance. The guys arrived much later bu they had to queue up to get in eventho we already had the table waiting. Management @ Mardi was stupid enough not to have two diff queues - one for reserved tables and the other by cover charge.. messed up situation and none of us got the party pack even tho we were seated at the vip area..instead ppl who went in by cover charge got it..unfair!! sheesh=p

Then there was a slight electricity breakdown before the midnight but was settled minutes after. Sad to say most of us missed the countdown in the club coz we girls were in the washroom at that time and the guys were still waiting in line=( Balloons were dropped from the ceiling and our ur national anthem as well as "Tanggal 31" song were played after midnight in the club , sounded weird but apparently everyone was happily dancing along with the song=p Mardigras was so stuffy that night, i guessed i prefer to be there during the normal days. Definitely no more celebrations there. Bad Service. Poor Management. They were running out of glasses that night and we had to share cups among at least 30 of us.. wat d hell..how stupid can they get. No priority to the regulars as well..they should at least let the rest of us in without having to queue so we wouldnt miss the countdown. We were there till 3 plus am then headed back to Jw's place to take a shower before leaving to Cameron's Highland at 5 am! Who came out with the idea of leaving at 5am without having to sleep just to avoid the jam???
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-it was ME..HAhhaha ! Total madness..

Nice enough to pose for me .. hehe
Having dinner @ Opus, B'sar before leaving to Mardi

>> Yeap, the well known shower podium' <<
>> We missed the balloon dropping part =( <<

>> nobody brought a camera so i had to use my 2 mega pixel cam phone instead<<
>> Bad picture quality=( <<

>> pink roses <<
>> as a token of apology? =Þ <<

Jazz Fest '07

2007-09-02T23:33:00.001+08:00

Didn't expect Jazz Fest to be so popular so we didnt actually reserve any table that day.. In the end i guessed we sorta "stole" one of the reserved table at Chakri palace , not too sure about that since some of us arrived late , hehe=p I'm not at all a jazz fan.. apart from having dinner at certain restaurants where they played jazz which served as good background music, i hardly listen to 'em. Too boring=p So i think that's the reason y i find the event nothing interesting. Sheila Majid was performing in the event too but i didn't find her songs "jazzy" at all.. Plaze Mont kiara was for once, happening that night but there was nothing much to do for me except for wine sipping (my not so favourite) and watching the performances. Still, it was quite an experience... -- Red & White --

-- The view from where we were sitting --
services that night sucked ! took bout half an hour for those slowbumz to open the bottle of wine for us..pFfft*

-- Gary, WengFoong, Pikwah --
-- nobody knows gary's gay, Oopzz --

-- Me & Cw --

-- photo taking outside the loo while waiting for lyn =p --

-- Doubles --
-- Wf & Pw in matching colour outfits ...AGAIN! tak beh tahan *haha* --

-- Joe , Jw, Me & Cw --
-- to me they looked more like fiery monsters rather than just mere funny faces=p --

proper pictures finally

2007-09-02T23:01:00.001+08:00

|| Claire's farewell ||

Me | Claire | Joanne | Pikwah | Amy | Lyn | Liyiing
Dessert Session @ Delicious after Dinner

| Couple - Couple |
| JW & I :: LY & YY |
@ Banquet, B'sar VIllage II

| Lyn & Amy |
| that brownie's making me hungry.. |

| Joanne & Claire |
* Smilez *

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the past 7 days...

2007-08-24T16:58:00.000+08:00

Just a quick recap :

+ last..Friday +
Wasnt feeling too well after what happened to me the day before (=p) so we just chilled around at jw's place for a mini gambling session- rummy, 5 cards, mahjong, etc. Towards the end a few of them started to get bored gambling with the money so they ended up playing the dare game instead. Losers gotta eat the leftover salad and 2 slices of baguette -both grossly covered with generous amount of thousand island sauce,garlic butter, tobasco, pepper & salt..haha, pity Aaron, Jon, Sau and Tip Pui-the last loser who had to lick the leftover sauces..Yuckss!!

+ Saturday+
Had dinner at The Banquet, Bangsar Village 2 with the girls ..mainly for Ct's farewell. Met Paul for the first time, hehe. Ct was here for nearly a month but all of us only managed to see her less than 5 times, what the hell?!:P Gonna miss u, claire! we didn't get to party togetha as planned..wasted* and Where are the pictures???

It was Sharon's 21st birthday so her bf, Mun Foo threw a party for her at his house by the pool-what a mansion he lives in.. There were quite a number of ppl who went for the party, including Amy who came to join us later past midnight=p We had lots of food and by means of party means an excuse for the guys to drink, drink, drink and drink! As i said, no alcohol for me at the time being so i didn;t drink any that night=p Still, the guys managed to finish bout 11 bottles of Black Label, and 2 crates of beer just by playing drinking games !(they actually bought 4 crates after finishing the bottles..) Madness..! One bottle was empty after only the 7th round of the game-imagine how much one has to drink(neat!) when u lost in one round, goshh.. One by one,at the end of the night all the guys were pushing and throwing each other into the pool..floor was wet ,all the guys inevitably got wet all over, even the ChowChow doggie lazing by the pool got wet, poor pup..Ming,who stayed few roads down fr MF had to go home to bring some extra clothes and pants for the rest of 'em, lolsss. Thank goodness i'm the opposite sex or nots i'll be in the pool as well..

- Sharon with her birthday cake -

- Mun Foo & Sharon -

+ Sunday +
Watched Liverpool vs Chelsea for the very first time.Not bad, at least i didnt get bored watching it. Chelsea , they don't deserve the goal at all.a BIG NO! :P

+ Monday+
Visited my grandma in Cheras with my elder sis. The first visit since CNY..a rather filial granddaughter i am , haha! Went to watch Evan Almighty with Jaa, Tim, Raz, Ivan, Manda and Ben..the movie sucks ! Bruce Almighty was way nicer tho i didn't fancy that show either.. Went over to Ivan's place to finish the leftover 2 crates of beer from the party..Ivan's got 3 strong fierce buffy Rottweiler and a fat white Labrador at his crib..so yeng! i wanted a rottweiler since young but parents never allow..

+Tuesday+
LAst minute bbq gathering at Ivan's place. Apparently the guys were walking around in Midvalley and the idea of having bbq sparked so they started calling ppl and buying the ingredients n etc. The bbq started pretty late bout 10pm.. i've heard about Ivan's famous lasagne and baked mash potatoes and finally i managed to try it all that night. The lasagne and potatoes were Awesome! He's a very talented chef...haha...It was one of the best bbq i've ever been to, with alot of food and their never ending creative drinking games of course=p They seriously can't stay without alcohols, so they bought in extra 3 crates of beer with a bottle of Black Label.Those who went for the bbq include both of us, Aaron the official A1 driver, Tim , TP, MF, Sharon, MAndy, Ben, Ming, Jason,Yap, Gun,Raz, Yifei, Peng, Sau n gf.. .

Fr left :: Tip Pui, Tim and Yi fei
- feeling proud of their self bbq-ed chicken using huge amount of butter=p -

+ Wednesday +
It was our one-month anniversary~! He surprised me with 2 tics to watch the Fireworks competition in Putrajaya. Had dinner at Sushizhanmai before heading to PICC..the road to Putrajaya was so damn jam!! i hate those ppl who did their double/triple parkings to c freeshows...sheeshhh, We managed to reach jus in time but didnt manage to enter =( still Trying to ask for ticket exchange since they closed the entrance way before the fireworks started without informing us. How stupid..

+ Thursday +
Lyn has finally quit her job so she has few weeks holidays before starting her new job=) IT was ladies night and we'd got nothing to do so we went to Mardigras with cw, peishan & cousins, joe, peiyin, sabrina and cindy..Met a few of ol' frens there inc Jmin Jian, tomato , heng and etc... Nice to see some familiar faces so u wouldnt be too bored jus sitting by the table doin nothing=p Yet to get the pictures from Peishan..

out of control

2007-08-18T00:27:00.000+08:00

I was at Mardigras , 1u last night with jw and a few other friends. The place was not bad, pretty diff from the rest of the clubs in peejay (Mystique...Sanctuary..blahss*)If i'm not mistaken, Mardigras happens to be the sister club of Maison..They even have a 'shower' podium with sexy girls dancing there-totally wet! Guys must be lovin' the sight i tell you..I heard that other ppl can also hop on to the podium if they wish to but i yet to c any=p Saw quite a number of familiar faces there..not surprising since we all live in peejay anyway.. hehe

Opened 3 bottles of BlackLabel for only 7 or 8 of us, knew someone would be drunk last night..and unexpectedly-it was me!Yes, me~ my first time getting drunk.(Hey, everyone has his/her first time ok?=p)Sucky !! I don't even wanna experience this twice for the rest of my life o.O Was totally knocked out last night that i couldnt even remember what happened in and out of the club..The next thing i know it's already morning and needless to say, I gave my boyfren pretty much of a trouble =p Sweet of him for taking care of me the whole night..hehe.. i feel so SHY now..damn! I was lucky not to hav any major hangover but it was bad enough to make me feel sick the whole day today...definitely NO alcohol for the coming weeks, bluekk* feel like puking jus by thinking about it.eww... God knows y did i drink so much last night....

Live to Eat

2007-08-15T16:58:00.000+08:00

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I promised to spend Joe dinner after his Law paper yesterday. We had our dinner at Chef & Brew, D'sara Heights .Glanced thru the restaurant before when i was buying cakes at Just Heavenly Pleasures and i find the ambience pretty nice for a proper dinner. Surprisingly, it wasn't too expensive either so we ended up ordering too much food and left the place with a 110% full stomach=p

What we ordered:: Grilled salmon head & cheese wontons(not in pic..)
+Cannot finish ! +

My main: Spaghetti with olive oil, garlic ,chillies and calamaris
+ only managed to finish half of it=p +

Joe with his siZzling sirloin steak!
+ So big portion, thank god i didnt order that, hehe +

(the place)
+ Joe ordered beer n they actually served it in a pewter cup to maintain its temperature.Interesting...+

Tada! I was given a surprise from my son when he handed me a bouquet of champagne roses=D
+ THANK YOU SO MUCH, JOE! +

-lurve the colour combination..and it's from FLORISTIKA,my all time fav florist. i feel so touched=~)-
+ arigatou gozaimase +

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Penang-soon to be my 2nd home

2007-08-15T15:42:00.001+08:00

I jus got back from Penang 3 days ago- my 2nd time in one month and the 5th trip there in less than one yr's time, each with diff group of fwens, lolz.. even my Grandma said " Penang again?!" when i told her where i was goin for the weekends.I've been to Penang so often that it's starting to become my 2nd 'hometown' - i even start to know my way around the island, good eh?:P

I went with jw and 6 other of his friends this time.We stayed at Gurney Hotel for 2 nights but i still think Northam is nicer in terms of the room & the size of the jacuzzi,haha ..As usual, all we did was eat..eat..eat..and EAT! Dropped by Ipoh while waiting for the other car to catch up with us for their local dimsum..They have so many selections of dimsum but we couldnt try all cuz we were saving space for Nasi Kandar in Penang=p

(the unpretentious 'Foh San' DimsumRestaurant at Ipoh..super crowded..)

Managed to find the 2nd famous Char kuey teow near Anson Road. I think it tasted better than the one in Lrg Selamat-not to mention, cheaper summore!=p Most of us went for massage in the hotel spa centre after the chill out session by the pool. Pretty relaxing consider this time we didn't rush ourselves to the respective destinations since we're spending 3 days there. Sharon & I were at the females' spa section and we had to strip everything down for the massage..lols,thank god we were provided with bathrobes.Massage was so-so only, even i can do better=p Sharon's turned out to be quite painful but mine was the opposite. The next day some of us suffered body aches due to the massages.

(random pic @ Kek Lok Si..fr left: sharon, munfoo, tim, mingfei..the better pictures are with Sharon)

We went to club at Glo the 2nd night,somewhere along the Upper PEnang Road..they hav several clubs there..the street somewhat resembles Asian heritage row to me. At least, this time the place didn;t look so dead compare to "Chillout" =p Much more happening n the crowd was slightly better tho i was hoping that the bar dancers could b abit better looking,hehe..
On our way back from Penang on Sunday we took the ferry to cross the sea instead of the usual bridge.Just in case any of u has never taken a boat/ferry in ur entire life, here's ur golden opportunity-it's free fyi=p Headed to Ipoh again before goin home, had western food at an old restaurant called F.M.S (Federations of Malaysia something something, heheh, i dun recall,sowee) established wayyy before our country's Independence day..The place looked so old-jus like the Coliseum Cafe in KL..we even suspect their cutleries were as old as the place! How did we find out bout all these places? Ivan was our beloved tour guide cum food connoisseur for the trip..heheh He even bought a book at Mph bout famous hawker food in malaysia!:p

(cars parked in the ferry..)
(view from the ferry, the sea, obviously didn't look that nice..)

It was already nightfall when we continued our journey home. The guys actually bought what it seems to look like "rubber elastic balls" with light that flickers when u hit it. Goin for RM3 each at the stall near the Nasi Kandar place we ate earlier .U can actually get it anywer even in PJ/KL pasar malam/bazaars/toy stores but they havent seen it before and they thought it was cool, ahha..

The guys even hang the thing in the car and they got so fascinated by how 'beautiful' the thing looked in the dark..swt! ("-.-) Funny to c how the grown up boys comparing and arguing whose one is nicer in terms of the colour n etc..In the end, Jw called me to buy one for his car to join the gang. So the next time any of u sees the above sight, it could b one of 'em hahah!

(check it out..the guys' latest possesion)

isolated

2007-08-14T00:24:00.000+08:00

Call me a paranoia or at least,prove me wrong. Yes, my intuitions are not always right and I hope for once, this is not what i think is happening to me. What exactly is this 'emptiness' i mentioned earlier..? i feel disturbed by this feeling pretty often and towards the end of the day, i get all 'emo' bcoz of it. I hate being like this..and as clear as i knoe what's the 'emptiness' inside me, i don't think i shall reveal much.i'm not even 80% sure.no doubt whenever i thought bout it, i feel a slight dissatisfaction.i don't think it's even my fault,neither do i deserve to be the one goin thru all these. I mentioned about sacrificing certain things in order to achieve another. I never tot it would come true..

Humans are realistic- i knew it since the day i start to understand the 'real' world.. Friends, are no exceptions.I just never thought a few of 'em could be that realistic. Those i thought would stand by me like they used to, would call me to console and be consoled, those who used to go out with me without much hesitation and so on.... all which i treasured so so much-i don't get any of 'em now.Somehow everything seems to be drifting away from me and i'm utterly depressed=( I talk to these ' friends' as if i'm talking to strangers lately.The special bond we used to have seems to be tearing apart..and as hard as i yearn to solve this puzzle, there's no use in confronting cuz most will be in denial..Some said i've been thinking too much-some told me that i should expect things like this to happen once i've choosen and made my decision. The same ppl told me nothing would change & will still treat me like the way it used to be. I should have known all these were jus white lies.Even at times not only those but among my bestest friends, i dun seem to get updates bout their happenings anymore, neither were they even interested in asking bout mine-this is so saddening..It makes me wonder sometimes if i actually make a difference whether or not i'm out with them..i somehow thought i don't.not at all. (T.T) i've lost a number of "fallen angels", the ones who actually had a place in my heart, the ones i consider as important as the rest of the girls, n the ones whom i called- close friends. I missed 'em -very badly indeed and i wish i hav 'em like i used to.Is my wish so hard to fulfill..?There's really a clear difference when ur attached and when ur not..trust me on this. Somehow there's this large pillar built to block u away from the rest. They say u'll see less of those who're non single...but i say they do not even bother seeing these ppl.We don't live in our own bubble for god's sake.I'm no alien. it's hurtful & at the same time, disappointing to know how quickly ppl can change the way they treat u. I've given nothing but my whole heart and sincerity in these ..yet I deserve nothing in the end. Do we really hav to draw the line so clearly..or am i wrong in a way..?

Yes, i'm F*ckIng Emo~

2007-08-09T00:04:00.000+08:00

Slow people teach you patience.

Angry people teach you evenness & stillness.

Abusive people teach you self-respect.

Emotionally shut-down people teach you unconditional love.

Dishonest people teach you integrity.

Stubborn people teach you flexibility.

Frightened people teach you courage.

service at priority

2007-08-06T16:27:00.000+08:00

Wanted to have dinner with ct at "the apartment" the curve last friday but they don't accept any reservations according to the "new" implemented system,pfftt* in the end we went there earlier hoping to get better tables and seats to cater bout 9 of us but no, they didnt have tables big enough for 9 of us except for one upstairs, right outside and we'll have to sit on stools. The main reason y we actually chose the place was bcoz of the interior, so since we werent able to get any places inside, we decided to change venue to Dragon-i instead.

Plus,services at aprtment were so bad and slow mo', prolly the restaurant's still new, most of the staff there were very unaware of customer's callings,esp those sitting outside! .. i hate it when it comes to bad services..not a good impression i have but will still go there one day coz of its 'unique' concept.Headed to the Loft after dinner with Jaa & friends , supposedly Poppy but it was a fri night so the place was fully reserved. Loft was also pretty packed with ppl,we only managed to get a small table near the dance floor for so many of us O.o I'm not really a house music lover, and worse, i don't even know half the ppl at the table so the night wasn't really a fun one=/ miss clubbing with the girls and the rest of my coll mates *sob sob*

I actually watched Simpsons twice in a week, due to some reasons..haha! and yea, it was not bad, very funny indeed..Don't reallie fancy watching cartoons in cinemas but this is one of the few exceptions..if ur into lamo shows, Simpsons' best suits u=p Recently jus sent my resume to a company, hope i could at least get an interview from there..wish me luck~

emptiness

2007-08-06T16:25:00.000+08:00

i feel a slight emptiness in me..
What could it be?

under construction

2007-08-01T01:03:00.000+08:00

I'm trying to give this blog a new look.
Meanwhile you guys an enjoy playing sudoku here=p

the real lady speaks..

2007-08-01T00:39:00.001+08:00

Have y'all heard of Lao Zhar Bor, the Singaporean old lady who blogs? Sounds like a turn off but you'll be amazed by the number of her blog hits per day.. A lady worth looking up to, at least to me=) Very unpretentious, outgoing and lovely ol' woman.. i wouldn't mind having a grandma like that,hehe ..

Visit Lao Zhar Bor's Blog
++ Btw, what does Lao Zhar Bor means? Doesn't sound like her name, does it? ++

I've been so bored lately during the night =( Drove out and went for grocery shopping all by myself just now and amazingly, I find it pretty interesting and time killing, mayb coz i don't do it often. Turning into a housewife wannabe already, gasp!*...it feels good to be able to grab hell lotsa stuff n dump it into the trolley and yet gain some change for my parking fee. The whole trolley which was filled with nothing but food only cost me bout Rm90+ ..it's cheap to me, is it not? Food's the only remedy to my depression and stress. Super useful to boost my level of endorphines . Who says chocolates' the only aphrodisiacs???Altogether i bought 3 bottles of milk
, 2 gigantic pack of cereals , pastas, mushrooms, tortillas , tunas and several others which i've forgotten...just to stock up my kitchen in case i have to prepare my own lunch/dinner on certain days=p Madness...

utterly boring

2007-07-30T21:41:00.000+08:00

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Am i bored because weekdays are boring or am i just boring?
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Don't u ppl get bored...

work to achieve

2007-07-30T21:08:00.000+08:00

i watched my first ever korean movie titled- "200 pounds beauty" few days ago . Being fat reallie is an issue..esp among the females.Ppl refer them to all sorts of bad names..sometimes i feel so sorry for 'em.. As harsh as it sounds, this is the real world.. and no doubt we're living according to social expectations=( i hope i'll never get fat.. *i can see some ppl rolling their eyes already!* =p seriously, been eating too much lately...there was once i ate a burger AND then an instant noodle jus for supper alone! geez..i've this habit of eating supper since long time ago and this is BAD:P as much as i enjoy eating, i'm trying to cut down on it lately but anyhow, i still love food *grins* I'm back to my belly dancing again..after almost a yr of not doin it due to my laziness ..this time i'm a lil more determined , trying to do make it a daily habit..since i think i m gonna gain lots of weights soon if i dont start exercising=/ and then i went swimming today! had an agreement with my sis to swim every monday n i hoped she means it.. i feel so healthy all of a sudden=p

2007-07-29T18:08:00.000+08:00

One look
One smile
One touch
One embrace
One kiss
One love
Two people
Two minds
Two souls
Two destinies
One road
One journey
One ending
Together.

- Melissa Higgins -

cupids' arrow

2007-07-29T17:32:00.001+08:00

Looks like its the season of love in the month of July=) Even my younger sis got attached recently..wat a surprise!=p Alas, she finally found someone who's good enough to care for her....n at least for now, i hav someone to take over my responsibilities..so thats good news for me,haha! Congratulations to my dear sis anyway=)

HUSH

2007-07-25T23:29:00.001+08:00

Celebrated yiing's beautiful 22nd last friday at Umai-ya Restaurant for dinner and sipped some wine later at "Hush"(next to Social) in Bangsar..Seriously, Bangsar's a dead place. Anyhow, Ly, we hope u enjoyed yourself ..and our presents too=) Yea, Jw still owes u a plate of peanuts, haha!

The usual six in M'sia... soon to have seven. Claire, come back quick!=p

Jaa & I =)

Eddy & Joanne

The new couple i was talking about.. Weng Foong & Pw =D

* Gonna go for Starlight Cinema tomoro with the girls - haven't been to one before but knowing it's outdoor , the screen view and sound system may not be as good as compared to the usual cinemas... plus it's been raining day & night lately..so lets jus pray it won't rain tomoro =/ won't be as fun if u were to watch not under the stars and velvet skies, but under the canopy instead.. I'm goin to re-watch "The Holiday" 0.o since that's the only show most of em' havent watch yet.. im jus gonna take it as a mini night time picnic then ;) *

-oh btw, we need floor mats...anyone??;p-

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overwhelmed with gratitude

2007-07-25T22:34:00.000+08:00

For the past few weeks everyone of us were so happy for the previous 'new' couple, there were all smiles on each of our faces whenever all of us talked about the new pair.It came to a point where i wondered if there were as many friends who will be happy for me too..i asked myself stupid questions such as will they neglect me and leave me in my own bubble?will they not be as close as me jus coz i'm no longer single n yada yada..

but no i was wrong.
They were as happy.
Thank You :)

Heart you guys very much..

~[ Love is in the air ]~

2007-07-24T00:19:00.000+08:00

Hi. Jia Wei here, no, don't be alarmed, I didnt hack into ym's account.
I am actually asked to guest blog in her blog. Doing it just for the fun of it.
This is gonna be my first ever post. I just realized blogging is not as easy as it looks. Finding the things to blog about is even harder.
I guessed i should just follow the flow and just write whatever i am feeling right now.
Well, guys, i am in love.
For those who are still curious, with who?
with her...

These passed few weeks have been really meaningful for me. So many happy memories for me by spending those time with you. From our first date, flower planting, the first meal you cooked for me, trips, and many other more happy times together. I just wished that i could just capture everything in a bottle and revive everything again.

I am truly blessed to have you. Things could not be any better for me at the moment except for the fact that i wish i could be there now with you. Still stucked in Kluang. ;(
Missing you dearly.

Anyway, thanks for everything and I promise i will be there whenever you need me, and i will be good.

I love you.

Well for those who are still wondering..
Yes, we are an item now. Happy for us? ;)

-JW-

-xoxo-

wake that spirit up

2007-07-24T00:14:00.000+08:00

let us plan the next big trip. a fun one.
make this holiday as busy as possible. stop being the couch potato at home.
Let this summer holiday be the most interesting holiday i ever had....
before i start dragging myself into the corporate world..
where i hav to wake up early every mornin during the weekdays and comin home jus in time to get my sleep
and that's when nothing is more delightful than to be able to apply MC's or half days and having the total weekends off

"oh no.."

at rainbow's end

2007-07-23T14:36:00.000+08:00

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" They say as you walk and follow the path of a rainbow, you will find a pot of gold at rainbow's end.I've walked to the end, but i see no pots of gold. Instead, i found you. "

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steamboat gathering

2007-07-19T22:39:00.000+08:00

Our steamboat dinner at Win fei's house last tue turned out to be a huge success!Applause* Applause* It was so much fun and we shall do it again next time=) Those who went the extra mile and worth giving credits to ::

* Win Fei- for offering his place, and preparing almost EVERYTHING for us that day,Thank u thank u!
* Noah-for the incredibly spicy tom yam soup. It was GooOODDdd~!
* Ernest- for the chicken/veg soup. Didn't get to try since it was shrouded by so many of u most of the time,haha=p
*Kenneth- for the 100 ultimate porkballs! lolss..
* Pikwah,Wengfoong,Jiawei & ME, of course=P - for the cheesecake!

~Also the rest who bothered to take their time off by attending this mini gathering: Charles, Cw, Gary, Cave, Kevin, Joe, Yw & Emily.. dun think i missed out any, did i?

Didn't reallie snap many photos for the event..Wasted* not even a group picture=( Below are the only ones i got..

Our blueberry cheesecake... (before) =)

(after)...and then it became like this=p
"How was the cheesecake??"

..Look at pw, and u be the judge (p.s: ignore the pink shirt guy,haha)

Joe with his mouthful of cheesecake!Bout the cake - the cookie base didn't reallie stick together with the cheese..other than that, it was good enough for beginners like us.Taste nice too:P *phew*

spotlight on gary & ernest

2007-07-18T22:59:00.000+08:00

during yum cha at Mac Dz....

blablabla...
G: Did u see the BMW popups ?
PW/me: yea..what happened to the page?
G: yeala.. that page kena hijackTed di la..

He meant "hijacked" .Believe it or not, the word "hijackted" was last heard from Joanne few months back, also at the same place=D So gary's not the only one. Nevertheless we learned a new word today and would certainly use it in the near future..lolss..

Regarding gary's confession in ernest's blog, it's NOT real ! jus another con job by fellows Cw and Ernest :)

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+Latest update in UoL+
Another new couple has emerged! Congratulations~ =) Looks like things are turning onto the good side recently..no more break ups..hopefully. So happy for u guys..No idea who're the newbies? read the topic once again=p

n when's my turn? ..waiting for the flowers to bloom maybe :)

not jus another ordinary day..

2007-07-18T21:02:00.000+08:00

What do you think and what comes to your mind when i mention :
Birthdays.. Valentines.. Anniversaries..etc etc?
Are those days significant,or at least, somewhat special to u?
For me, i do put great importance to these days.. whether it's my birthday or someone else's, i consider it special and worth celebrating for. It doesn't have to be a big and lavish celebration, maybe jus a mini one will do. Afterall, what's so hard about goin out n have lunch/dinner together for just a day anyway??

I've known and observed many friends and ppl around me.Some find the occasions unnecessary, some don't find it of any importance at all, some think the days are meaningless, some couldn't care less about it, some find the days as typical as the other rest of the days,some don't even bother celebrating 'em and only a few think the days are different than others and worth giving their attention to.Seriously, I've heard of many ppl who couldn't even remember their family members' bday, what more their friends'..

And what about those couples in love and those currently in steady r/ships?How many of you actually remember your anniversary date?the first place u met each other?or your first date with him/her ?Most girls remember these so called minor details whilst most of the guys can't even answer maybe, 2/3 of the questions asked.I realized many couples, esp those already in years of r/ship, no longer spending their quality time with each other and celebrating on occasions eg. their anniversaries and Valentines'.I never blieve a r/ship can last if every single thing they do is nothing but a routine itself.At times something fresh and new should be input into the r/ship in order to keep it lively.Y wanna make a r/ship so boring when u can actually spark things up? I've known of a few long-time couples who didn't even bother givin each other a hug, goin out for dinner or even, say the ultimate 3 words to their loved ones on their birthdays,not to mention on Valentines'.Dead.Lifeless.Boring.When asked "why not",the most common answer u get from them is "Love from the heart not in terms of material things.We shouldn't just put extra love to the special someone on one particular day-but everyday instead.So there's really nothing much to celebrate about" Sounds true but 90% of them are jus saying it as an excuse and in reality, they never do it.

Everybody is different in their own ways. What's wrong with having the least, one "me" day out of the 365 days of the yr's calender..?All of us deserve to have that 'special' day..be it Valentines' birthdays ..etc etc. I believe everyone wants to feel special and loved by many.Show it, remember there's never too much to offer..Put a smile on someone on these days ..u might just make their day=)

...always the thought that counts

it's the people who matters..not the gift itself

sorry joe..i know i still owe u a post of 1000 words long:P wud like to thank you for everything,for being such a nice friend and company, to the unforgettable 'mothers' day' celebration (hehe..)

thanks for the gift and those lovely card toos*hugss* Part of the collection of cards.been keeping them for years, some are recent ones.My priceless treasure-i'll never trade any of those for anything! I appreciate each and every single one of 'em.Love 'em all*

July Babe

2007-07-17T00:11:00.000+08:00

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"Wishing you all the best in the year to come.
May your days be filled with sunshine and beautiful colours
And may your nights be filled with comforting dreams and wishes to come"

Hope this day is as special as you

17/07/07

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a rather rare baking session

2007-07-16T22:39:00.000+08:00

Pikwah & I are supposed to prepare 'dessert' for tomorrow's steamboat dinner, according to the co-planner Ernest, and so we actually baked a cheesecake today with the help of Wf and Jw ! :) thanks Jw for the oven n kitchen btw..hehe.. Hey , cheesecakes aren't that easy to make ok, and due to the lack of experience i actually asked Ernest if i could change the cheesecake to something else easier but he didn't allow me to,so mean=p Hopefully our hard work pays off and it doesn't taste too bad.. *fingers crossed*

Went to have dinner at a Chinese restaurant in USJ after the baking session. The food was not bad but we couldn't reallie enjoy our dinner bcoz of the presence of third parties. So who are the third parties?? Flying Ants! okay, mayb they are not called flying ants,i dunno what they were-jus ants which can fly! There were so many of those ants flying around n on the floor, some even dropped onto our drinks and trying to walk over our dishes, irritating bugs!* Maybe it was the weather, even the workers were surprised to see the number of those annoying silly bugs infesting the place..yuCkss..In the end, we ate,paid and left the place very quickly to pasar malam in ss2, jus to take a after-dinner walk and have some mini dessert before goin home =)

weekends

2007-07-15T17:23:00.000+08:00

Feeling very unhealthy living my holidays without exercising..reallie need to get my bod toned up, my latest resolution yet to be achieve.LOls...since Nigel's in Auckland now, it'll be very unlikely for us to have any badminton sessions in the future..boohoo* missing u Mr. Nigel, without u we've no court to play,ahah.. joining gym will be a waste of money since i know i wouldnt be so hardworking to go that often so goin for dance classes will b a better choice. and yes, the girls, sorry, i will try to find for dance studios-soon=p..me and my peanut size memory..

Btw, Harry Potter was boring.Prolly coz i didn't read the book and also the previous episodes. I'm sure the book is way better than the movie. Had dinner with the girls, cept Ly, at Italiannies yesterday along with a 'newcomer' in the group-haha..will be expecting a lot of him in the future anyway:) Went for Jw's friends' farewell at Poppy after dinner..brought along Amy n Lyn-altogether there were bout 21 ppl there for the farewell..huge group! i was a lil surprised to find out that the girls apparently already know some of the guys there,it's a small small world indeed ..jw was the only one down last night,others were-okay, but he managed to sober up a lil after supper..Again, we didnt take any pics=p..wat else to crap here..my son's finally back from his enjoyable trip to Bali, so jealous* told u girls to plan a trip there, it's a guaranteed fun trip lerr=p and i'm supposed to bake cheesecake for our steamboat session on tuesday.. under a lot of pressure.. seriously! coz i hardly bake anything for the past few months ..i'll be so damn disappointed if it doesnt turn out to be good=( so guys, better not put too high hopes on it..

odd facts

2007-07-15T16:05:00.000+08:00

Left handed people live slightly shorter lives than right handed people.
Right-handed people live, on average, nine years longer than left-handed people do.
In Bahrain, a male gynecologist can only examine a woman's private parts through a mirror
A snail can sleep for three years.
Pearls melt in vinegar.
You burn more calories sleeping than you do watching television.
Donkeys kill more people annually than plane crashes.
Most lipstick contains fish scales.
Male and female rats may have sex twenty times a day.
A man's beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex.
Donald Duck comics were once banned from Finland because Donald doesn't wear pants.
Coca-Cola used to contain cocaine when it was initially introduced.
The average chocolate bar has 8 insects' legs in it.
Marilyn Monroe had six toes on one foot.
"I am." is the shortest complete sentence in the English language.
The word "dreamt" is the only word which ends with "mt"
In Tibet it is considered good manners to stick out your tongue at someone
It is impossible for a human to lick their elbow.
111,111,111 x 111,111,111 = 12,345,678,987,654,321.
A teaspoon of neutron star material weighs about 110 million tons.
In india it is cheaper to have sex with a prostitute than buy a condom!
The first owner of the Marlboro Company died of lung cancer.

jigsaw puzzle

2007-07-13T17:30:00.000+08:00

Life's experiencing a 360° change since early this year
No longer living in the shadow of the past
No longer waking up everyday dialing the same number with my phone
No longer goin to the usual places
No more routines..
No frowns..
No anger

Now everyday is a different day..
Doin different things
With different ppl..
The word "boredom" seldom appear in my daily dictionary anymore..
Instead, the "fun" replaces its slot.
I've found many new friends
..Some, even soul mates..
Along the way i've seen so many things..
And uncover many of the truths within.

If life's a jigsaw puzzle,
I would've completed the first quarter ..
I smile as i go on putting the pieces of puzzle together..
I no longer force a fit. Because if something's meant to be, it will come together naturally
And when one spot stops working, I'll move to another..and be sure i'll get back to it later
Coz getting hung up on the little pieces only leads to frustration.
There r so many things to learn about life from a jigsaw puzzle,
I learned to look at the big picture,
And realised that variety is the spice of life...
It is the different colors and patterns
that will actually make the puzzle interesting..

pearl of the orient

2007-07-13T15:56:00.000+08:00

Those of u who wish to view the penang pictures may do so by visiting Choon Weng's Blog

Here's a very noob & simplified version bout the recent updates / significant happenings in Penang:

- it was a road trip. 10 of us( me, pw, wf, ernest, alex, alfred, charles, jw, cw, joe) went in 3 cars- (Alfred's , Jw's, Alex's ) There was some miscommunication regarding the number of days we were gonna stay in penang and bcoz few of them gotta go back earlier than planned ,hence, the others came back in just 2 cars.

-We rented an apartment somewhere in Batu Ferringhi. There were 3 rooms-the girls, obviously, got a room by themselves, and the remaining 2 weren't enough for the rest of the guys so in the end, few of them sacrificed to sleep in the living room instead.

-Reached Penang the first day at about 10.30pm. After allocating the rooms and unpacking our stuff, we decided to go clubbing at ChillOut, a club in Gurney Hotel- said to be one of the most happening club in penang..

-It was alredi almost 1 am when we got into the club. The moment we stepped into the club, we were horrified by the sight of 2 sexily dressed fat women baring their spare tyres, lying down in the middle of the bar singing "God is a Girl" with the microphones! and they were surrounded by a few uncles who were somehow seemed to b enjoying the 'show' -very much.. eww*

-All of us started to worry and stared blankly thinking we were gonna spend the sat night w that horrible singings & awful crowd but thank god, there was actually another room further in which is where the younger crowd is, that played R n B musics. phew*

- the crowd was very diff from that of kl's. In kl, we call them "lalas",hehe. There was a group standing next to our table throwing ice at each other, and ppl pushing into the crowd without even saying "excuse me" to you.Culture shock..and the music they played was by no means-weird. Linkin park songs were played several times that night, just imagine.(???) Later we were told that there was actually another club somewhere called GLOW which was supposingly better than Chillout.. wat the hell?? if only we knew earlier..

-We were all very tipsy that night. Back at the apartment, the guys went high and started singing stupid songs and laughing at their own lame acts=p Had no idea wat made them so hyper since we only opened 2 bottles that night. haha,,

-the next day was fine. We were all so holy ,visiting places which were mostly- Temples!=p KekLokSi being one of them, the snake temple, etc etc.. most of the time we had no idea how to go to the destined place and we ended up getting lost ..so half of our time was alredi wasted there. We were dumb enuff not to get a map from those nearby hotels until dinner time..

-Nothing much u can actually do in penang cept EAT..eat and eat!! Yea, lunch was nice, we had Char kuey teow at the famous sisters' stall at Lorong Selamat, dinner was great at the hawker street in Macallister Road but supper was bad coz being a noob in penang, we couldnt find any other places to eat at such late hour besides mamak. Other than that, we went to the Feringghi tourist street where the guys bought many dvds and music cds since it was so cheap=p

-The guys had a make up session done by the expertise-ME! hahas* if u actually viewed cw's blog u can c some of my work there=p No i wasnt the one who suggested this , ernest did! he wanted his eyes to be eyelined, so i was jus returnin' his favour, lolss* not bad tho,both joe & ernest actually walked around the street shopping for dvds with make up on! passerby must b thinking they were some sorta punk rocker or something, ahhaz

-Nothing much happened during the last day.We slept late-bout 4 to 5 am, but woke up really early the next morning-bout 7am, hoping to find good food to eat before we leave penang but were left in disappointment. jus found out that penang ppl are reallie very slumber. They(in the F&B field) only open their shops at 11am so peeps,now u know "early bird catches the worm" does not apply in penang...pretty pointless for us to wake up so early that day actually..

finally..a glimpse of light

2007-07-13T15:40:00.000+08:00

been listening to so many break up news recently and finally, alas, after several months down the road of sad news, we've got a new couple in town!:) Congratulations to "u-know-who" , jus in case u both don't want your names to be mentioned,haha.. am really happy to hear bout both of you tho =)) enjoy your lovey dovey days together ya n stay mushy! *winks*

Btw, u sneaky duos, didn't even bother to inform me esp u- the girl :P n i have to find it out myself, i'm your first ring of frens summore, feel so outdated , hmph!*

Sweetest Sin

2007-07-10T22:15:00.000+08:00

Yay! We managed to find this cake shop by the name of 'Just Heavenly Pleasures' owned by a guy named NIgel at Bukit Damansara today=) I was browsing a food blogger's site and found this lovely place..The desserts there were so unique and pretty.. it's worth the trip there=D

.....Sticky butterscotch cupcakes....so irresistible!!

-it's hard not to get a taste of these cakes..*drools*-
-Sinful indulgence...their signature chocolate durian cake-

*photos courtesy of "Whiff of Lemongrass" *

mystical night

2007-07-10T21:17:00.000+08:00

Am jus too lazy to think about anything to blog for the past few days .

I still have no idea why Laundry's so packed during the weekends. Their food sucks big time, not to mention their cocktails..so tasteless without any hints of alcohol. We've ordered a jug of margarita but it tasted like ice blended orange juice. pfft* ..if it wasn't for the sake of the "happening" crowd i wouldnt even be there..

Headed to Mystique after that for a fren's gf's birthday..fyi, Mystique's a bar cum club which plays mostly R&B musics.. there's nothing much to shout about Mystique.. the interior was simple, the music wasn't very impressive-they even played Robbie william's "Better man" at 2 am.. very weird indeed* If im not mistaken there was a minor raid bout 2 am that night but it wasn't a serious one..peejay clubs are so prone to raids..tsk tsk.. Hard trance was played after the raid but a few of us were jus too lazy to get back to the club.. didn't reallie have the mood to club that day anyway, i didn't drink. i practically didnt do much. my cough was bad..wat else can i say, there were also quite a number of lala ah bengs there with their "unique" sense of style..blahs* the only plus point is-open bottles there are cheap..2 bottles of dewars goin for RM424..not very bad afterall...
sorry there aren't any pics for the night=)

burfdays for the "C"s

2007-07-03T23:20:00.000+08:00

HAPPY HAPPY 22ND to BOTH of YOU=)

We celebrated Cave's ( left) and Caryne's (right) birthday last friday at a jap restaurant in DU..

Jia wei, Caryne, Ernest & Cave-who was trying to make his eyes look bigger=p

part of the group who attended the dinner..

Just another excuse for such rare gathering :)

illnesses strike

2007-07-03T22:33:00.000+08:00

i am SICK again!!!! this is so frustrating.. each time i'm back from a trip, so are the stupid viruses. They will always return to launch yet another attack on this poor weakling again and haunt her for the following days/weeks! GGggRrrrrr..* I've been suspected to have "viral infection"-- a kind of virus attack to ur body which is contagious and it's spreading speedily across the nations..which was clearly evidenced by the long queue in clinics-imagine having to wait 1.5 hours to get attended by a doctor.. sighh.. but don't worry it's not a life-threatening disease-jus the normal illnesses eg flu sorethroats coughs and fevers. So don't stay away from me..i'm harmless:P just letting out some complaints...

Just this year alone, one by one most of my friends had turned themselves away from what we call -r/ships..no longer attached & committed to it..some are proud to declare themselves as S.A.D but to others,it's heart breaking,hurtful and depressing..i guess break ups are never something any of us would wanna face, let alone experience it--it's just not a happy thing to do..

the different perspective about love

2007-07-03T21:49:00.000+08:00

i was flipping thru the tv channels yesterday coz i was too damn bored after my homecoming from penang and a small part of a drama captured my attention.. I was watching the part where the lady made her decision to break off her r/ship with her fiance , who happened to be a rich n famous lawyer, all bcoz he was about to lose his everything-from fame to reputation..

Most might think that the lady was jus being too materialistic.Or at least, she's being portrayed as one of the antagonist characters in the show..But no, it wasn't bcoz she didnt love her fiance anymore, neither did she get close to him solely for the sake of wealth..
In the show, she said these words to another lady,
" I was attracted to A(her fiance) in the first place bcoz of his character, his successful high paid career, his high reputation n how he does justice to his clients.. u might think i'm just someone chasing over material things and that i'm being cruel to him, as a matter of fact..i'm not. I love him for who he is-a complete package. And it was this package that he has which i c myself spending the rest of my life with..now if he were to lose everything that i like in him - his career, wealth and fame.. he's not the "him" whom i like anymore-so what's the point......?"

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What the lady said impressed me and those words left me into thinking.. She was not wrong, but it wasn't completely true either. No doubt in the real world,everyone has a pinch of materialistic in them- let's face it..noone lives without money..u can't survive solely out of each other's love.Money is important but nevertheless, it is not everything.It's jus the key to our survivals.yes, we are THAT realistic. So how do u classify someone as materialistic in this sense? ..

very typical malaysians..

2007-06-27T22:47:00.000+08:00

It always happened whenever someone who's nice enough to plan something out for others, whether it's a trip or an outing (just coz the rest are too lazy to come out with a plan).. eventually his/her plans will receive many unwanted feedbacks or have it rejected by the relevant group of ppl.True? Face it. Most of us tend to be very indecisive and fickle minded at the same time. We hate to make decisions esp when you have to make one for the whole. Simple case eg. choosing a place to eat even when you do have a place in mind.. when asked for suggestions, 90% of us would rather not suggest anything and watch the clock ticks .and usually we always end up giving the most simple answers such as-" i dunno " , "up to you" or "anything la.." which all sum up to - "no answer". Agree?

Obviously there are also the odd ones who are nice and "brave" enough to come up with an idea or suggestion. But often it backfires. Whenever they come out with an idea/suggestion we tend to drown the "planner" with never ending questions and loads of personal opinions-either we disagree with the plan & that we don't buy it, or we think the plan isn't good enough and could be better..and yada yada.. Why didn't we have so many things to say when we're asked to come out with a plan? It is only when someone else suggested something that we start to debate on it. Ironic..? Unfortunately. We can be very unreasonable at times..

It's like having a moral hazard problem (=p) ..when everyone knows there'll be chances that their plans will be rejected , in the end we choose not to plan or give any suggestions at all.. what's the point of wasting our time planning when noone seems to appreciate it.. y can't all of us jus oblige whenever there's a plan and compromise with it. So stop being demanding..Save all the complaints and suggestive remarks and everyone will be better off that way. Don't be a KILL JOY :)

2007-06-27T18:09:00.000+08:00

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